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I am in the process of building a site on there - I have to say I'm finding it a bit cumbersome and slow. But this is just going to be a stop gap website so that I have a presence on the internet, I don't see it as a major marketing tool (yet).
It'll be interesting to hear anyone else's views on other sites.