Hi im sorry for starting a new thread but i’ve looked and can’t seem to find a solution to my problem and i thought the more seasoned foster carer may be able to help.
Ive been a foster carer for two years for a relatively new company and have had 2 placements since joining, currently got two disabled siblings M(8yrs) & F (12yrs). Last year my dad died and my agency only allowed me to have one day(his funeral) for respite! they said they couldn’t find anyone at such short notice and with the teenager i had at the time(16yrs) they said it was appropriate that she also went to the funeral.
With this placement i have asked for 3 days respite(my daughter is immigrating and shes flying from London so we are staying for a few nights before her flight), im allocated 2 weeks per annum, and i have been told that they can not provide respite unless a support worker does it within my own home. This would be a person i have never met, but will basically be living in my house on her own for three days. I have argued that this is not acceptable and no where in their handbook does it say that respite is within my own home. Its really putting me off continuing with the company as i feel whenever i request respite im not allowed and im made to feel guilty.
So my question is does your agency provide you respite if so is it in your own home? am i being unreasonable by saying i dont want a stranger to stay in my home to provide respite?
Thanks in advance and sorry for the long post.
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MummyC1 · 23/09/2014 15:36
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