My husband and I are going to panel shortly and we were talking the other day about having a list of house rules to share with children in the first few days of being with us.
I have previously worked as a teacher and in most schools the expectation is that you will share rules with new classes at the beginning of each year to set expectations etc. Is this a good thing to do with foster children do you think or will we come across as too strict and uncaring?
If you would recommend it, what rules would you suggest I include on the list? I've been having a little think and so far have come up with the following, which encompass a range of issues.
- Be kind in our words and actions towards people and animals
- Look after furniture, toys and equipment
- Help to keep our home clean and tidy
- Be polite and use good manners
I totally understand that many children will not automatically be able to follow these rules but they are there to be a guideline of how we hope to encourage the children to behave in the future if you see what I mean?
Anyway, what do you think? Good idea? Stupid idea?! Thanks