Im having a devil of a job getting FS to drink - he was only just weaned from full time bottles at 2y4mo when he arrived, and has steadfastly refused to drink from cups since then - he occasionally drinks from a particular sippy cup - but we are talking max once a week - so there is no physical issue. He's been with us over 4 months. He still drinks bottles at night, because we have to ensure he gets enough liquids in him.
We've had some great advice from our health visitor, and have managed (baby steps) to stop the daytime and overnight bottles. He now has 8oz milk after his bath and a further 4-5 oz in bed. He is sleeping well and gaining weight, eating well and otherwise a happy chappie.
I have managed to get him drinking juice from a carton - yeay! and Im diluting the juice therein so we are not wrecking his teeth.
But how the heck do I get him to drink from a cup or beaker? SOme have advised letting him go cold turkey. He will drink when he is thirsty etc. But this is not really my style and also, I feel that this might be an attachment/nurturance issue with him.
He will only drink from the carton if I hold it. No one else, just me. He could hold it himself but wont. He likes to sit on the stair and for me to hold it while bending down to him. Then he strokes my face. Sometimes he looks at me. most of the time he avoids eye contact. He will also sit in his high chair and drink if I hold the carton. If im out, he will tolerate my son giving him a drink. He has attached very well to both my son and me.
We have tried every cup/beaker in the world, including the sippy straw cups. We have taken it right back to the beaker style bottle teats, sippy cups with two handles, you name it, we have tried it.
He can drink direct from a cup because he has done so with a jug in the bath! He just refuses to do so, even when thirsty. Ive stopped him, before now, from dipping his hand into the dogs bowl and sucking on his wet sleeve. Heartbreaking.
He is with us because of neglect and abuse.
ANyone heard/experienced similar? Any advice on helping him?
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DwellsUndertheSink · 14/09/2013 15:19
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