Hi all, I woke this morning to an email from our area manager stating that as of today no foster carer will be provided with respite.
unless there are extenuating circumstances such as an urgent hospital situation (surgery etc) or if a close family member dies. even then you can only have respite IF you sort it out with a fellow carer yourself and the fellow carer understands that they will NOT be paid for said respite.
now I find this to be disgusting. I will tell you why.
every year we book a holiday abroad and every year I ask for a passport for the LO I am looking after. every year I am told no you cannot take the LO abroad as they are under 2.
well I booked my holiday for this august, last may. I asked if the LO (now moved on) could come with us as she would be 3 by the time we went away. no I was told by my manager.
now we are told we have to take children away with us (as it should be) but only to holidays in the uk. if we wish to travel abroad tough.
I feel an awful lot of resignations coming.
and what about the carers that are only respite carers? what happens to them?
this is a disgusting move by my LA and im sure that there must be something legal we, as carers, can do about this.
please don't misunderstand me, I believe the LO's should be coming on holiday with us but we were told that we could not take our LO with us. I have paid for my holiday, ss knew about it last may and they are now telling me that I must cancel my holiday as they still wont allow our Lo to come with us. so are they going to reimburse me for the cost of my holiday (£6240)? no they are not.
I said they other day I thought we would be resigning. now it seems I have no other choice.
I love looking after these kiddies but social services have forced my hand.
I will be writing to my m.p and I will also be contacting Ofsted as im sure this is not allowed.
what do you all think and have you ever heard of this before?
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fostermumtomany · 17/04/2013 12:37
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