My fd has been with us 3 months, shes 17. There hasn't been access with bio mum until now as fd hasn't wanted it. However mum is now demanding access every other weekend or saying she will take fd out of care (its a voluntary order). Fd says she will attend access which will be in mums home which is 40 mins away every other saturday for a few hours.
Fds mum drives and has a car. Saturdays are busy in our house, I attend college every 2/3 saturdays and we have 2 kids who often have matches, parties etc. Is it unreasonable to expect mum to do the travelling to facilitate access or should it be 50/50, e.g. we drop her to mums and mum drops her home. The sw hasn't given any indication of how this contact is to work and mum is suggesting she would like to meet half way.
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babytinkabell · 11/09/2011 11:38
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