LAC review was on Friday.
Plan at 9.30am was - contact was to be the same as it was this week for the next 3 weeks, which was Monday morning to Friday afternoon with us only having him over the weekend
By 11.30 his parents were thrown out of the Social Work department!
what went on in between was, when they were questioned about their relationship (they have a volatile relationship which can turn violent) Dad stuck to his I want to be with her I love her, and Mum simply said I think he should have his own place (which was something that we had wanted to give him a bolt hole) but from there on in it went down hill, with Mum getting up and leaving, Mum asking Dad for the keys to her flat. It was really not pleasant.
LO was being looked after by Gran but was in the SW dept when the LAC meeting ended with the outcome being that there would be an early review in 3 months where if serious progress wasn't made decisions about LO's future would have to be made. So we left the meeting room - I was waiting to get some paperwork, and Mum went into a room with Gran, and the LO - Dad was told her could go and see his son, next thing Dad come bolting out the room shouting I didn't hit her, and Mum screaming that he had. The truth seems to be that he pushed past her and she hit her head off the wall. At this point the SW asked them to leave immediately.
so we meet on Monday at 12 to discuss access for next week.
fast forwards to this morning, Dad phoned to see how LO was - and told me that he had to phone the police this morning as Mum attacked him - and this was confirmed by the out of hours SW when she phoned to make sure that LO was safely in placement and not with his parents.
How can people live their lives like this??
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SquidgyBrain · 06/03/2011 00:38
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