I am getting really worried about DD1. Every since she has been a baby she just cannot resist food and would eat all day if I let her. I offer her healthy food at home. Lots of fruit and veg which she eats happily and we usually all eat meals together. We don't have cakes, biscuits etc on a daily basis but once in a while (eg parties, special occasions or if I'm cookIng etc) as don't believe in banning these completely. DD1 does ballet twice a week and tennis at weekends and they do PE at school and is generally an active child.
Right now DD1 is a good healthy weight but I believe she might be overweight in a different family.
I know people will want to tell me just to let her eat what she wants as long as it's healthy but I cannot do this as DD1 is completely unable to set limits for herself when it comes to food and will eat to the point of being sick. DS (who is a year younger and is also a good eater is not like this and stops when he's had enough).
This all got too much for me yesterday when DD1 had a playdate. I had kind of mentioned briefly that DD1 will eat and eat so don't feel bad about saying she has had enough (didn't want to go on about it a was first time DD1 ha gone there - I would have gone too but am not very well myself these days and needed to rest). But, when I went to pick her up I was horrified by the amount they told me DD1 had eaten (in fact cannot understand anyone who would let a little girl eat so much). And indeed when we got home poor DD1 said she felt sick and was over the toilet for 10 minutes retching and I had to walk her outside for 20 minutes (with a bucket) until she felt a bit better.
Can anyone give me any ideas on how I can help DD1? I don't like being the "food police" and saying "no, you've had enough" so often but perhaps this is my "job" even if DD1 doesn't always like me for it.
The other problem I have is that people think it's so great that I have a child who eats well (as most people I know have children who refuse to eat) that they don't recognise I have a problem. But, for me, a child who over-eats and cannot set limits for herself is also a problem. In fact I am wondering if a child psychologist could possibly help me as I don't want to end up with a child who has an "issue" with food/her weight and want to handle this im the best way for DD1.
Thank you for the help and I hope i won't get replies telling me she can eat all she wants as long as it's healthy as this does not work for us in this situation.
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PurpleBucket · 05/10/2011 01:04
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