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au revoir. see ya, goodbye.

its been a great 5 years, and I have learnt so much from you all. but I'm afraid I'm done.

Thank you for all the support and advice and I shall always be grateful for the friendships I've made here. just asking to be blocked for a while so I dont feel like such a fanny if I come slinking back, but tbh, I doubt I will. Im on FB!

love you all xxx (and special love to the hutters, hope your dreams come true and you all eventually graduate. in the meantime have some gin and tea)

how do you leave? how?

<waves>

<raises >

Im getting MNHQ to block me (help my willpower)

Get the fuck back here now young lady.

I did not authorise this and shan't accept it.

Oh, Lissie, I never thought I'd see the day!!

Much love and good luck on all your travels.
I hope life will treat you well.

(what pushed you over the edge, flouncy-wise?<<mosey>>)

Oh FFS 'nosey'

its a thread in AIBU about SIF not being as upsetting about PIF. its tainted the advice and support Ive given and received over the years and made me question the relationships Ive built up on the TTC boards and how people see my posts on the subject.

Im done. I was upset about it 2 days ago, and its still reduced me to tears this morning.

Oh dear, Lissie. I'm sorry you are so upset

Oh Lissie.

I don't understand what the AIBU thread is but I am sad that you are upset about it .

I think I saw that thread. Lots and lots of the responses were very supportive of those experiencing SIF iirc. It was one person, one aibu thread and lots of responses that completely understood.

BUT I get it. Sometimes it does just take that one thread doesn't it. If you really must go- and I am not at all happy about it- then please know that I never for a second agreed with the sentiment in that thread and neither do the majority.

You are very loved on here. I hope you know that.

Lissie, I read that thread and I'm not surprised to see this. So sorry you feel the need to leave, really hope it's not a forever flounce. I understand why you feel the need. Just don't do yourself out of any needed support. People will be thrilled to see you back.

Oh my, I saw that thread and stayed well out of it...
Sorry it upset you so much.

Sorry you've been made to feel so awful and sad to see you go.

Lissie my love - I totally understand and am very very that you feel you have to do this. I do hope you choose to come back - will miss you horribly. I have also decided to leave the Hut off the back of that highly destructive thread - it was so painful to read. We're all hurting, some more than others, but all hurting for effectively the same reason - we should all be supporting each other, not competing over who has it worst.

I really really hope to see you on here again in not too long. Lots of love xxx

oh, thank you all. I shall miss you all hugely and see most of you on FB.

ps, am just running down time till Im blocked

I love MN and whenever I see or hear it being slated I defend it viciously. you are all wonderful women and I have "met" some truly inspiring women on here, as well as RL friends.

mwah

That is such a shame, I'm sorry that you are so upset.
Take care.

Sorry Lissie, take care x

Oh no Lissie.

So so sorry to see you go, but I completely understand.

Lissie I will miss you.

It is MN's loss.

xx xx

Lissie I know you and I didn't know each other particularly but this is very sad and I'm very sorry this has happened. That thread made me cry my eyes out as well, for different reasons to you, but it shows how all-encompassing and horrible it was. I certainly understand you wanting to leave after that little lot.

All the best in the future.
x

I didn't see the thread, but I am sorry it has affected you in this way.

Take care, will miss seeing your posts around until you come back

xx

so sorry you were upset Lissie, I hope that leaving/taking a break helps. I wanted to thank you for being very kind to me about a year ago - should have done it on the flowers thread but was rather distracted - your posts meant the world to me then



THANK YOU

Liss hugs

and thanks gfor all teh support

but see you on FB X

Bye bye my sweetie. I can't believe that the thread in aquestion is still going. Some people are just horrible.

I probably bumped it but felt I wanted my say, sorry

aw sweetcheeks, that's bollocks. don't be a stranger (and did you wear the furry thing\veiled hat combo!)

So did I, Peachy. I am just so terribly saddened by the hurt and damage that thread has done. I hope that Lissie will feel able to come back in a while.

I was talking about this with Mum

Mum had 4 stillbirths followed by a forced teermination (baby basically had no heart- rubella damage).

She is quite angry at the way Liss has been treated; and whilst Mum went on to have her family eventually, I think given the sheer hell she went through she would understand if anyone would the OPs point.

Empathy. A valuable commodity.

Really sorry to hear you are leaving, even though I didn't 'know' you. You always seemed like one of the most compassionate posters. MN will be missing your kind touch