What a silly thread title! I'm not a fish expert but this didn't seem like AIBU material and I still wanted to whinge so...
We went away over Xmas hols to see family and a friend offered to 'fish sit' for us. Her DH has tropical fish in a big aquarium thing. Our fish (betta fish), in small tank. We took the fish to hers so she wouldn't have to drive over to feed it etc.
The DCs LOVE the fish. DS3 used to draw pictures at nursery to put near the tank for the fish to look at. DS2 can't see a beach without wanting to choose a stone for the tank. They fight over whose turn it is to feed it.
Have had the fish for 2.5 years which is a good innings for a betta especially as he was adult when adopted.
So first thing DCs wanted to do when we got home was collect fish. Friend busy. Offered to drive over one evening. She said she'd let us know and didn't.
Today she texted me "really sorry but DD (5) was changing your fish's water while you away and killed it! LOL! Had to flush it. Can't remember what it looked like but your tank is cleaned and ready for a replacement, come over this evening?"
I am miffed that she didn't tell me before! Though it sounds like she was maybe hoping to buy a lookalike and I do appreciate that but surely letting me know what had happened would've been fine? And she flushed the body down the loo so can't do matchbox burial.
I know it's just a fish but I'm still miffed! And not looking forward to telling DCs
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EbonyIck · 25/01/2015 09:28
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