i gave birth to my DD 6weeks ago. (already have a DS aged 3) when she was 4days old i asked DP if he would buy me some flowers as we had family coming and he hadnt bothered to get me anything, i didnt want HIM to look bad. ever since DD was born he hasnt had anytime for me, i feel like im invisble. my mother isnt very well so im trying to keep two homes going (even tho my father and one brother still live with her and brother 2 is only down the road) i feel like all im good for is cooking and cleaning and nobody ever says thankyou. but the biggest hurt is im really upset that he never got me flowers and has never said a kind word since. i asked him if i had done something wrong and he says its because he had to do everything in later stages of pregnancy; because i had terrible siatica (if thats how you speel it) and honestly couldnt move. i tried my best to keep the home going but he says i could have done more and dont deserve presents. i know it sounds silly and having 2 children is the most precious gifts of all but i cant help feeling really hurt and down when i honestly try my best. all i wanted was a 99p bunch from tesco, he constantly makes me feel like im worthless, he threw a jug of water over me the other day because DDs bottle could have been slightly warmer, i feel like im going off my head, he knows i had terrible PND on DS and im sure he is trying to send me around the twist. im sorry to moan and over something silly but i just feel nobody wants to listen to me. why is it hurting me so much? i just want to blank it out but its there niggling away all the time.
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i cant help feeling hurt even tho its over something so stupid. why wont it stop.
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LittleTinkerbell · 18/05/2010 19:00
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