Where to begin?
Was at a meeting with occupational health today, referred there by my line manager due to a 'high' level absences from work. SHe asked lots of questions and for the first time I was able to be open with someone who's not my DP:
- I binge/comfort eat
- i'm so tired all the time and could sleep for hours but when I do, I feel no better
- My body aches all over
- I have a constant head ache and horrible feeling in the pit of my stomach all the time
- I'm crabby with DP and DD for no reason
- I find it so difficult to motivate myself to do anything
- my memory is shot and I have to write myself the stupidest lists (one thing I'd put down for today was have shower/wash hair!)
- I feel like I'm constantly unwell and its a long time since I've felt 'myself'
- I get so tearful and anxious going into work every day
- I find my line manager unapproachable and so difficult to gauge what mood she'll be in
- I am scared of the person I job share with, not just how she treats me but also the people we manage, yet I LOVE my actual job
- I worry all the time that I'm a crap mum and am doing things wrong
- I'm really fat and ugly and that will never change
- just feel totally worthless and pointless
- Just lost my grandad and finding it really difficult to cope with but I haven't been able to cry?
Occ Health suggested getting my manager to do a work stress audit with me and I almost hyperventialted at the thought of it - how can I possibly be honest with the woman when she is part of the problem and not interested. Even Occ Health said she could see how anxious I was getting about that but that if I could manage it would be worth doing. Also recommended I see my GP as had PND after my DD was born 3 years ago and took sertraline for a while. SHe aslo advised me to ask for a referral for counselling as well anything else my GP suggested.
Just really needed to get all that off my chest