I recently posted elsewhere with a topic that, in part, was to do with my lack of assertiveness. It set me thinking, what does it feel like to be assertive? I know I'm not; I hate confrontation, feel shaky, and always try to appease people. I know the techniques of assertiveness but the concept is so far away from me that I have no idea how I would be like that myself.
I'm not looking for advice for myself, more just an open discussion to find out what is it like on the other side of the fence. What does it feel like to be a confident child/teenager/woman? How do difficult situations feel to you? Do you feel fear and ignore it or does it just not occur to you?
And also from anyone who recognises themselves in my own description - I'd just like to hear from all ends of the confidence range, to find out other peoples experience of dealing with everyday life, with or without it.
many thanks
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What does confidence feel like?
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amigababy · 09/02/2010 08:18
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