I am really struggling with life recently and feel absolutely hopeless. I have had a history with anxiety, depression and eating disorders but haven't felt low for years. Anyway recently they've all been coming back again, I know most of it is because I am so stressed with everything and I feel like I have no control. I'm starting to drive myself crazy and spending hours in the middle of the night doing stupid stuff like scrubbing the kitchen floor and cleaning skirting boards or arranging my DVDs in alphabetical order. It seems like the more out of control I feel, the more I start to try and control the little things in my life that don't even matter!
I know I sound like I am losing the plot, but I really don't think it's all that bad. On the outside I always seem quite calm and organised and together and to be honest, over half the time I actually do feel quite calm. But then something small happens (like an argument with my ex partner or finding headlice in my children's hair) and I start to feel totally out of control again.
My eating disorder is creeping back, its not really bad and I think I can keep it under control enough but now that is consuming my every thought and I am getting stressed about my ED because I am getting stressed in the first place.
I'm a single parent, work fulltime, no family nearby and no real support system. I do have a lot of fantastic friends who I have vented to a lot recently but I can't ever tell them everything, I don't want them to think differently of me.
I went to see my GP and he gave me a script for some anti d's but I don't really want to take them again. I don't really feel 'depressed' more out of my depth and like I don't really have much control anymore. In fact it's probably my anxiety which is worse. When I actually do go to bed I lie there wondering if I have turned the TV off at the wall or if I locked the back door or if the cat flap's open incase the cat wants to come in. I then have to come downstairs and check everything.
I know there's probably not much people can suggest to me, I do fele better after writing it down though, i guess maybe I just need to talk more to people?
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NotQuiteSure01 · 31/01/2010 21:16
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