Dunno where to put this thread so put it in feeling depressed, think I feel like a moan and a rant.
Quick review - put our flat on the market nearly a year ago got a buyer in January so in March we put in an offer on a house in Scotland (where we are locating to) buyer went awol and basically pulled out the deal. But we still have to go through with the purchase of the house in Scotland so each day we do not buy it we are penalised financially. Then DP gets a job in Edinburgh and moves up there to start work leaving DD and I in London on our own for a month, in this month I find out I'm pregnant with no (delighted) anyway my Dad offers us his flat in Scotland (but miles from DPs work) so we can be together so 6 weeks ago we all move up here.
Meanwhile we accepted an offer on the flat in desperation, it was well below the market value but given the fact there are 15 other flats for sale on our street alone we needed to move quick. The guy buying is an investor and EA assured us it would be a quick transaction. Needless to save 7 weeks on our solicitor is still waiting on his solicitor to get moving with things. I phone EA every few days to try and get them to hurry buyer along (he works for them) but it's taking ages.
Main thing is DP, DD and I (as well as 3 cats) are stuck in basically 2 rooms that are full of boxes. I've been feeling rotten with the pregnancy and have not been eating properly, neither I feel has DP or DD. The kitchen is the width of the washing machine, has a cat litter box in it and because of this I don't want to cook in it, I'm giving DD things like toast and cheese for dinner rather than cook from scratch, DP is living on ready meals and I'm living on cereal and toast. My Dad is also a heavy smoker and I have cleaned the place from top to bottom and it still stinks. I know that sounds really ungrateful.
DP is also spending 3 hours a day each way travelling as you can imagine this is taking it's toll on him, his trains have been delayed tonight and I know he will come in in a foul mood and theres nothing I can do to help.
Sorry for the novel but I feel so low right now I don't know how much more of this I can take every time we think of a way out it doesn't happen. We need to sell the flat to release the money for the new place.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Mumsnet hasn't checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you have medical concerns, please seek medical attention.
Mental health
Just so fed up with it all - my life right now!
22 replies
sweetkitty · 07/07/2005 19:16
OP posts:
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.