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Nine years ago, while I was in labour with our eldest son and my DH was driving to the hospital, a man committed suicide in front of DH's car. DH was cleared of any wrong doing, but understandably carries around a lot of guilt. He has had some counselling, and tried antidepressants, but not for very long. Every year, as DS1's birthday approaches, he becomes increasingly down, agitated and angry. I have tried everything I can think of over the years to help him come to terms with what happened, but nothing seems to help. I have got to the point where I am just so very tired of living with this horrendous shadow over our lives (I know that makes me sound like a complete selfish bitch). He often sits and stares off into the distance, and I know exactly what is going through his mind. He is an amazing father, and a fabulous husband, and I just wish I could take it from him
Has anyone got any experience of helping someone through a traumatic experience, and could you please tell me what worked in the end? (I am being deliberately vague about the details of the incident, it would make us too identifiable)
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Helping DH with PTSD
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Knackeredout · 04/11/2009 13:14
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