no way out

[misssixt56]

any mums out there who lost custody off their kids,

[huggybear]

hiya,

im guessing your new? i dont recognise your name.

welcome to mumsnet, im sure you'll find it supportive and fun.

i personally dont have any experiance of losing my kids but am happy to listen if you want to talk?

love huggy xxx

[haven]

i personally haven't but, know of two other girlfriends of mine that have. two totally different problems. one the mom wasn't a good mom, she used to be my best friend, and the other just didn't have the money to fight the battle in court.

[Trixie1]

Missy, have you lost them or you think you will lose them?

[Changed4Now]

misssixt56 - yes. I did and if you are/have lost them i send you all my love. There is always hope ds is now with me full time again.

I had funding to fight for custody but I still lost.. wasnt cos i was a bad mother although that was ss view when proceedings started. Had PND and by the time final court case ds been with his dad for some time so although equally good parents felt he shouldnt be unsettled.

Are you gettign any support at the moment? Are you able to discuss it at all?

[misssixt56]

its been 2 years and ive stopped talking to people about it now,as i feel people r fed up listening to me. but i cant get it out of my head,feel like like im cracking up.its just like ive got no identity anymore.no purpose

[Chyla]

Hi misssixt56, have u had no custody of your children for 2 years?

[HappyHuggy]

you can talk here hun

[weesaidie]

I am not in your position but I really feel for you. So sorry sweetie.

[misssixt56]

money is running out another couple of months wont be able to pay rent on house.pay bills not earning enough money from work then wot do i do,its getting worse not better

[Sax]

Hi Misssixt56 - listen, no one knows you on here, feel free to off load how you are feeling, it may help sort out whats going on in order for you to cope with the practicalities. Whats been 2 years? What is happening with the children,, you asay about losing custody? There are lots of people here wholl listen to your worries if you want to express them, feel free. After all you were brave enough to post in the first place so you've taken the first steps!