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Zahora · 23/08/2009 15:56

I've had enough. I don't think I can cope another day with my ds. He is 3 yrs old and I have started hitting him now to keep him under control. i feel so bad. I just want to walk out before i hurt him.

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cocolepew · 23/08/2009 16:23

Didn't want your post to go unnoticed, some wise person will be able to help you

Do you have anyone you can talk to?

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letsgostrawberrypicking · 23/08/2009 16:40

Oh Zahora, really feel for you and your ds what a tough time you are both having.

Why particularly are you finding it hard now, is he being difficult for a reason? What other types of discipline have you tried?

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The2ndMrsSantos · 23/08/2009 16:41

Parentline 0808 800 2222 - ring them now please. You can't be the worst parent because you know you need help. I hope you get it. x

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Suzy123 · 23/08/2009 16:53

Then walk out, go to another room, count to 10, hit the wall, scream - it'll pass (done the screaming one many a time and its worked). Take him out to the park, let him run himself ragged. Ask your family for some help if you can. I went thru a phase like this and i am sure many do. I agree with a smack on the hand when done in a controlled way, but when you are uncontrollable thats a diff. matter. Remember he is 3 yrs old, and his behaviour is probably perfectly normal, its how you react to it that counts.