My dad lost his brother 5 weeks ago.He has had a breakdown.He has been put on ad's and sleeping tablets by the mental health crisi team.
He really is struggling and keeps saying that if he just get rid of the feeling in his tunny then he would be ok.Its like butterflies but 100 times worse!
We are presuming anxiouty?
I have been supporting in every way possible.
There just doesnt seem to be any improvements at all apart from the sleeping.My dad is so concerned about taking too many tablets as he is already on lots for other things ie blood pressure,cholestrol,diabetes.
He is now taking even more and believes that iits all contributing to his feeling in his tummy.
I think that because he is still in denial about his brother dying he is not talking about it at all as still early days this is the reason he is getting anxiouty in his tummy but he does not believe it at all.He sees no end to the feeling.When he gets it which is very often he's almost whaling with the discomfort.
Does anyone else suffer with the tummy feeling?
He also gets shaky and sweats with it too.He doesnt get sick or need the loo though.
I just dont know what else I can do.I wish I could make it all go away.Am I putting too much pressure on myself?
WHats the best way to support?
I also get anxious but am coping with it.I think that when my dad gets better I will then be able to deal with myself but for now I am in overdrive with no thought for myself.
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Have hit a brick wall with my dad...
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parker1313 · 09/07/2009 12:57
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