I feel that I am on the edge in many ways at the moment. Due to my family and its predisposition/obession with mental illness I am terrified of succombing to it, but at the moment I think that perhaps I am actually suffering from depression or anxiety and should get some help.
At the moment I am having mood swings - some days I feel ok and as if I am fine and can cope ok, and others I just feel crap about everything.
I am on my own with DS (3) without much support and I feel very lonely a lot of the time, which doesn;t help. I recently got a new part time job (as felt that the full time job I was in was too stressful) and I don;t feel the relief I expected to, I am stuck in an office on my own with a pretty heavy work load so end up setting more stressed and working extra hours and then feeling crap about myself as I am not as good a job as I want to.
Most of my friends and married and have recently had a second baby so I feel excluded from a lot of conversations as seem to centre round husbands and how to deal with two kids.
I just feel I am worrying about things constantly - work, money, state of house, state of the world.... and I feel I have a lot of resentment and anger in me.
DS is very trying at the moment - I regularly shout at him at the top of my voice. I know I shouldn;t do it but I just feel so tired and frustrated.
Yesterday I shouted at him in public and I feel awful as people must think I am a horrible mum. He had been really whiney all afternoon and we had some errands to run - I went to give blood then we had to go to the station to book train tickets. On the way to the blood doner centre DS whined all the way and stood in the middle of a road so I shouted at him and dragged him roughly acrros the road. Then at the booking office DS whined and Whined and asked to be carried and held while I was trying to book tickets in the busy office, then he refused to walk so I had to carry him, two bags and his scooter. HE started pulling at my ears and I just lost it with him and put him down on the pavement. He lay in a crumpled heap and a passerby picked him up. HE then tantrumed for about twenty minutes. In the middle of the street.
By the end of the day I was close to tears. I just feel so alone and guilty that I shouted at DS and so frustrated by my life!
Some days it all feels fine then other days it all just seems too much. Little things like problems at DS's nursery or stupid things like the bank setting up my account wrongly turn into big issues that I dwell on and mull over. I don;t want to end up all bitter and resentful, so I think I should get some help before I do.
Any input or advice would be much appreciated
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Mental health
I'm worried that I am on the edge of good mental health.....
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curlygal · 11/06/2009 12:35
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