I've got a past history of not getting on very well with people, generally unpopular wherever I go from school upwards. I am hard of hearing and introverted but I do try and get on with people, just it never seems to work.
I suffered from depression for a while, started work about a year ago. I work in a department and did my best to get on with people. First person I worked with was known to have disagreements with everyone and I had a tough time with her but I persevered. Her replacement (she retired) is a nice young girl who is also pregnant. She was unsure of the ropes when she started, so I guided her through some things. I can honestly say that I did my best with her, however she cannot deal with any form of criticism. For example, at one point I told her that ringing me first thing in the morning is not the best way of contacting me (I work part time so at that time I am still driving to work), and she burst into tears.. Today she told me she found me rude and cannot work with me. I can honestly say that I actually went out of my way not to offend her.
Given my past history though I'm just feeling really down and have lost confidence in my ability to get on well with people. To add insult to injury, I was in the school grounds waiting to pick up my son and his best friend's mum is talking about two parties his best friend has, none of which my son has been invited to.
Would post this in AIBU but I can't deal with the negative messages at this time and I just want to vent, I suppose.
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Is there such a thing as someone who is very unlikable? (long, sorry)
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treepose · 07/04/2009 17:12
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