My DS2 is just over two weeks old and I'm really struggling with everything. My DS1 is 3 and I'm feeling isolated from him and resentful of the DS2 as I'm with him 24/7. I'm bf him at the moment other than one bottle of ff that DP gives him around midnight to give me a break.
I keep thinking that I've made a huge mistake having him. Both me and DP pondered long and hard about having another DC as DS1 was such hard work.... and now I sort of wish I hadn't. I feel dreadful about feeling like this. I'm not enjoying the bf as I thought I would either, it's making me feel even more hemmed in.
I was made redundant just before my mat leave started and now am feeling totally lost as I loved my job.
DP is going back to work tomorrow and although I have some help, I feel like I'm not coping and am on the verge of getting very depressed. Please tell me I'm not on my own.
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Struggling with newborn DS2
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notsurewheretolook · 15/03/2009 19:39
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