Last night my brother OD'd, and is currently in hospital over 100 miles away. He is stable, but they are keeping him in to assess psychiatrically.
I am 40+4, and cannot really drive any longer, there are health complications, and I cannot really risk going to another hospital to deliver. My DH does not drive.
Our parents live abroad- I do not have their contact details as we are estranged. We are 4 siblings-
1 sibling lives abroad, and we are estranged..
1 sibling lives about 100 miles in the other direction, is disabled, and mental health problems also.
My brother has said he doesn't want his housemates to tell anyone (ie family)- though his housemate called me, but at least my brother and I have a relationship.
I am reluctant to tell our parents- they cannot afford to come to UK, he doesn't want them to know, tbh they are probably a huge part of the problem, and he has also kept my secret (pg)- surely I owe him his privacy?
I just don't know what I can do to help him now.
This is the norm for my family btw- brother is the youngest, and this makes a full set, though my MH problems are a long way behind me now.
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TheWhiteSheep · 25/01/2009 10:53
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