DP's been having a lot of increasingly worse 'issues' recently & I eventually managed to get him to visit the GP. I'm 24 weeks pregnant & things have been really difficult, with me almost leaving a few times in the last couple of months due to his great levels of aggression, etc. I wouldn't say that he's generally what you'd consider to be 'depressed' (he doesn't lie in bed all day crying, or anything clichéd like that) because his problems manifest themselves in very quickly confrontational ways. He's never hit me, but has been very unpleasant in most other ways - he has been abusive, to be honest.
The GP has given him a prescription of citalopram which he's been taking for 3 days now & will be on for 4-6 months. He's also going to be referred to a 'mental health worker' to discuss his issues, but that's not been sorted yet.
I'm wondering how long it's going to be until things get easier. He's trying really hard, but I'm having to walk on eggshells so as to not set him off, as I have been for a while now. I know the standard advice is that it takes 3 weeks for the citalopram to work, but is there any positive effect before that? Will the counselling be automatically helpful, or make him worse for a bit?
I know that there are no fixed answers & everyone's different, but I was just wondering if anyone has any anecdotal evidence. I think I'll find it a lot easier to be patient & supportive if I have a realistic idea of how things may go from here? Thanks.
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DP has been diagnosed with 'severe depression' & has just started taking citalopram. What can I expect?
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SnowySunshine · 21/12/2008 20:34
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