I feel like I've totally lost the plot. My DD is 6mo and I just feel like everything I do is wrong. She is a high needs baby and is hard to keep entertained. I cant keep carrying her around all day as my back hurts. I'm useless at getting her to sleep during the day (last nap took 40 minutes to settle her down, the neighbours must think I'm murdering her), when she eventually goes off its only for 30 mins. I'm trying to wean and she doesn't want any of the foods so I just keep trying. I'm trying to cut back on BF (got to retutn to work at some point) and she keeps demanding more feeds so end up dropping one only to give another at a different time. She wakes on average 3 times per night and I can only get her back to sleep by feeding.
I just feel like I have no direction. Nothing I do is right and I'm messing everything up. The house looks like a bomb site there's washing up everywhere and I need to vacuum but it will wake up DD if I do it whilst she's asleep and she cries if I do it when she's awake. I've got no family around me to tell me what I'm doing wrong. I feel like a failure as a mother and a wife. My DH is very supportive, dont know why as I'm useless.
I'll never be able to go back to work at this rate as I dont know how to settle DD how can I tell them at nursery what she needs when I dont know myself? All her crying sounds the same to me, so the first time she cries I assume its to feed and the second time for ?sleep. All in all I cant get her to sleep day or night, cant get her to eat solids, and am failing to cut back on BF. I just wish I could make her happy.
Where have I lost the plot? Any ideas?
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twinkleymum · 13/05/2008 16:44
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