er...I'm looking for people to pose as my pals on Facebook :D

[grumpyandbumpy]

wow - this feels like the saddest thing I've ever done... here goes...

I'm dead lonely and I've sort of lost contact with everyone somewhere along the way and now find myself in the position where I'm stuck at home with two kids and I have noone I can really call a friend. Im so unhappy and down at the moment and really want to deal with my problems rather than just lie awake wondering what went wrong. So....I want to fix this.... I have a few people who (I think) liked me before I had kids and ended up losing all my confidence in a difficult relationship...and would like to try and contact them via facebook (they live too far away to just meet for a cuppa). I can hardly ask people I havent spoken to in years out of the blue to be my only friend on facebook - they'll think I'm a stalker! and wonder quite rightly why I have no life to speak of - it would make most people run a mile I think. You wouldn't have to do anything - just make me look a bit less sad for a week or two

On the other hand, if there is anyone in the same boat as me, maybe we could start our own little group in support of rebuilding a dead social life

Heres hoping someone will take pity on me! I'm not quite as loopy as this makes me look btw

[singyswife]

Hi there. Where in the world are you?

[grumpyandbumpy]

blimey - that was quick singyswife - Kent.

[BecauseImWorthIt]

Why don't you join the Mumsnet group on Facebook, then you can add us all to be your friends!

[singyswife]

Okay am completely out of touch when it comes to pc things, what is Facebook. Is it like bebo???

[grumpyandbumpy]

hullo BecauseImWorthIt - is there one? I'm new to all this. Just looking...

[wannaBe]

you won't look like a sad stalker if you start out with only a few friends. Just tell them you've just joined and decided to look them up.

[grumpyandbumpy]

singyswife - um - whats bebo? blind leading blind? facebook is a social networking site...

[grumpyandbumpy]

think I've found it BIWI - it says its a closed group and I need to be invited - is that it?

[NAB3wishesfor2008]

I'm in Kent too.

[singyswife]

Yeah defo blind leading the blind. I am in Scotland but I would be happy to chat via email if you need to chat

[TripleyTigger]

Yep!! thats the one JB, might take a day or too!! but you can add me if you like!! Oh hang on I'll have to add you as i am in disguise on here!!! What name are you using or can't you say either?!!!!

[TripleyTigger]

I mean GB!!!

[grumpyandbumpy]

Hello NAB3 - Canterbury for me. I've been hanging about looking for a local MN meeting but nothing doing round my way...

[NAB3wishesfor2008]

I am near Maidstone.

[grumpyandbumpy]

well NAB - if you fancy a cup of tea somewhere that wont mind my two almost uncontrollable girls then I would bite your hand off at the offer ....

[meglet]

I've added you! Not local to you, but happy to be facebook friends .

[NAB3wishesfor2008]

Have to go to school soon but back later.

How old are your DDs?

[grumpyandbumpy]

NAB 1 and 2 ...

[CayKon]

i'll be happy to add you, always nice to chat to someone new

[grumpyandbumpy]

hey caykon - my names there ^ - i'd really appreciate it

[TripleyTigger]

There are quite a few and knowing me I will add the wrong one!! Add me when you get into the MN group.x.

[scarlettskye]

Have you seen the mothersvoice facebook group? for women with PND