This at first view may seem trivial but I am broken hearted. We have a 8 month old pup, have had him since 8 weeks. Since we got him it has been a struggle dealing with him and ds twins. DH had promised to be the main carer and trainer but this hasn't happened. I had said I wanted to get a pup but to wait until ds twins were in nursery (hopefully January) but DH wanted this pup.
Worse is, we got him from a rescue centre. Both of us are previous dog owners so know what is what. He is a lovely dog but very destructive, puppy-style but also because I can't spend enough time with him during the day. DH phoned the rescue centre tonight and they agreed we are doing the right thing in letting him have a better life.
So DH is feeling guilty, I am having to cry in private because I don't want ds twins to see something is up. Because he is feeling guilty we have had a huge fight and he is behaving like an a* when I need a shoulder to cry on.
I am guessing we won't be able to get another dog, I had wanted the boys to grow up with pets like I did, to learn responsibility for other animals. God, this is so horrible and anyone reading this is probably thinking "loony bin material." I feel I have let everyone, especially the dog, down.
Luck should turn up every now and again but it never seems to.
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Mental health
Having to give up our dog
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TwoIfBySea · 29/10/2004 23:45
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