For the last 4 yaers approx, my 16yr old DD has been self harming and attempting suicide on almost a weekly basis and spent the past year in an acute unit to try and help her get to the bottom and resolve her issues. When she's home she's been very violent, aggressive and demanding and generally very hard work to be around.
I have a 15 yr old DS too who is the complete opposite of her, easy going, relaxed, peaceful and no trouble whatsoever. until last week. He took a huge overdose and spent 2 days in intensive care followed by 3 days in a high dependency unit and was initially not expected to survive. ?Thankfully he's ok and has been sent to another hospital to have his mental health assessed.
He told his therapist that the reason he took the OD is because he feels ignored at home. I can sympathise with that because my daughter takes up an awful lot of time and attention but lately i've been tryng to redress the balance.
I just keep thinking what a shite parent I am cos I have not just one but two kids who think they're better off dead than being with me and I realy don't know what to do anymore.
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I'm sucha failure, wtf do I do now???
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crappestmotherever · 23/10/2007 23:19
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