My Dad has suffered from depression for 15 years now. He is most of the times a million times better than he once was but still gets these terrible lows every few months for a week or so. I was wondering if there are any other Mumsnetters out there with the same situation? I don't want this to come over as a selfish thread as I know its so much worse for the sufferer than the family but it is not that easy for the family either! I find it paralises the family when it happens, we live in dread of it happening and do everything we can to ensure we do nothing that may trigger an episode. Then when it does happen we are on hold until it lifts. When my mum tells me Dad has got one of his lows I feel physically sick, panic, get anxiety attacks and am basically useless til I get a call to say he is better. When he is fine and on form it has the same effect, we are all happy, carefree, enjoy life. My Dad has been the most influential person in my life. He is a wonderful,caring person who has given me so much guidance and support. I really need to learn to deal with this better. I am worried it'll affect ds when he is older as my mood and outlook is so connected with this situation. Does anyone else have experience of a similar situation?
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Anyone out there with a depressed parent?
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alwayshungry · 03/07/2007 12:35
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