My dad suffered a severe head injury 3 weeks ago today, he's suffered a traumatic brain injury and we know that it's permanent. At first we didn't expect him to survive the first 3 days but he's doing well and starting to come out of the coma. Thing is I have a history of panic attacks and depression and i'm finding this so hard. I was close to my dad and it makes me so nervous going to see him, he can't do anything but lie there and look at you before drifting off. He can't speak, move or breathe on his own. My dad was retiring next year and him and my mum were going to have cruises, buy there dream bungalow and relax and it's all gone. My dad was fit, active and worked hard all his life and now this has happened. I just feel like life is so bloody unfair, i'm worried about my mum as she is working herself to the point of exhaustion, just stopping to sob her heart out before starting again. My dad looked like he was crying the other night and I can't get it out of my head that he's trapped in his body and but ok mentally. he's damaged his frontal lobe which is personality, behaviour and memories.
I'm on diazapam to help calm me down but I just keep feeling like i'm falling apart. I don't know how I can cope with this, I just feel like running away from everything.
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Depressed & anxious about Dad
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calebsmum · 06/03/2007 13:49
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