Just found out my sister has cancer

[Ulysees]

and on the day my late sister who died of cancer would've been celebrating her birthday.

I haven't spoken to her yet as she left a message with dh last night and was very upset. I rang this morning but she was having a lie down. I just feel numb. I know this happens to a lot of people and has already touched our family but it just seems as if you're the only one right now. You feel totally selfish in your grief.

[pinkchampagne]

Oh Ulysees, I'm so sorry to hear about your sister.xx

[Budababe]

Oh Ulysees I am sorry. I know with your late sister's experience you will automitaclly assume the worst but it may be OK. Fingers crossed for you and yous sis.

[tortoise]

Sorry to hear about your sister.

[lulumama]

oh ulyssess..you can be as selfish in your grief as you need. i am very very sorry to hear this . perhaps it is treatable? hard to think straight, i imagine x

[ssd]

so sorry to read this

hugs to you all

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ssd x x x

[DelGirl]

oh goodness, poor you and your dsis. So sorry .

[Marina]

Ulysees, I am so sorry, and what horrible timing for your family. XXX

[kittylette]

oh im soooo sorry i cant imagine what you are going through, how awful

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[Ulysees]

thank you everyone. I'll know more soon. She's told my mam and she seems strong amazingly.

[FiachraFrog]

[Aero]

So very sorry to read this Ulysees.

[Tamum]

I'm so sorry Ulysees. I'm sure the situation is not without hope but it must be very grim for you at the moment xx

[princessmel]

What sad news

I can't imagine how you must all feel

xx

[Ulysees]

It's cervical cancer. she has to go to another hospital to see how far it's spread.

I'm really angry as is she. She had treatment years ago, had to have smears every 6 months then yearly then they made it 3 years. I wish I could smack someone for this right now.

[NbgsYellowFeathers]

Sorry to hear that Ulysees

xx