This is a difficult thing to post, because if I say it out loud somehow, I feel like a terrible person. I have two little girls, one 2 and one 8 weeks, and before I go on, I need to make it clear.. they're my world. They are loved, looked after, pampered and protected. My heart beats for them!
Ever since I became a parent, I've had these involuntary thoughts come and go, and it can be from a number of triggers! I could see an article about someone who has harmed a baby or toddler, and immediately I imagine it being my child. But just just a passing thought, like a graphic role play of their reaction and upset in whatever the situation may be.
I could drive over a bridge, and my mind goes 'what if someone threw her in' and then follows the images of them, falling, landing, struggling.
The most recent one, which sounds insane I know, but our family is going vegan, and part of this decision is animal cruelty. I recently watched footage of how some seafood is eaten alive, there was a lobster that was not just boiled, but slowly heated to the boil, alive. A day later, I'm not every thinking about it! In fact I was on the toilet!!! The thought comes into my mind, accept it's my children in the pot. The images, the pain, it's all there!
Every time this happens my reaction is the same. I burst into tears, go and hug my children whilst telling them I'll always protect them and feeling like the worst person alive.
I will always try to think about something else as fast as possible, but I don't know what's wrong with me.
I'm too scared to tell anyone incase they think I'm a danger and take away my babies. I cannot stress enough, I would never harm a hair on their body, I would die for them in an instant. But it's getting unbearable. I feel guilty, crazy, dirty, and trapped.
I suffer from depression, and have had a bit of a rough life so far, I need a lot of help that I struggle to get, but I don't know what this is
Please, does anyone have any answers?
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Intrusive thoughts..
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BlankSpace1 · 25/11/2016 21:34
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