I have a variety of mental health problems (bipolar disorder, OCD, Tourettes), but recently my anxiety as shot through the roof. It's really affecting me, and affecting my 2,5 year old too because I don't take him places much.
I'm now scared of leaving the house, especially when not with my other half. My son and I went to the park earlier, and I was anxious because there was a dog barking in a garden next to the park (in case it would come running and be aggressive, I normally like dogs and am not anxious if they are with their owners).
Yesterday I had to walk for 30 mins each way to drop something off at my doctor's, and I was so anxious I almost threw up, and had a panic attack before I left. I can't rationally see a reason why I'd be so anxious about it, I think also the amount of walking made me nervous, as I'm unfit and it's uphill the way back! But even so, it's no reason to panic really.
I have to go to toddlers groups with my son, he has speech delay and needs the social time. He has been going to a childminder for some months, and it's taken the pressure of me, but now we can't afford to pay for it anymore. So it will all be down to me.
I am scared of small places, so lifts and public toilets are no go for me, in case I can't get out again. I read about a lady stuck in a lift for months in China (obviously she died), which certainly did not help my anxiety! This all started with me getting locked in the toilet with my in laws. They got me out within minutes, but ever since then I've been petrified.
I'm scared of using cash points, in case they eat my card.
I'm scared of going public places, because I feel utterly disgusting and vile. Rationally I know people are unlikely to care at all about me, but I can't help feeling it.
I'm scared of seeing friends and family, for the same reasons as above. I am also anxious that I will say something horrible, which is linked to intrusive thoughts I have.
I'm at times scared of eating because I might choke.
I am always petrified of going blind, and how this might happen because of my weight (put on like 30kg when I started antipsychotics to help with Tourettes).
I'm scared of having cups of tea near my laptop, in case I accidentally - or on purpose - spill it. (on purpose being another intrusive thought).
I'm scared of hurting my child when I get yet another intrusive thought.
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I'm sure you get the idea.
I am waiting for some additional medications to help with my anxiety, from a psychiatrist. I can't have SSRI's as I get bad side effects, so they had to take a bit extra time to find out what I can take.
I was told there is no point signing me up for any therapy, because the waiting list is so long. I have previously had CBT and it didn't really help that much. I have had counselling in my home country for about 5 years in total, so have good insight into my own situation and my own state of mind. I have never been this anxious before.
So what can I do? I have panic attacks when I need to leave the house :(
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Severe anxiety - what can I do?
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Purplebluebird · 14/09/2016 12:55
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