Hi everyone,
This is my first post and I really need some advice.
My son is 15 months old, I got divorcesd from my son's father when my son was a year old. I have since found a lovely guy who worshipd my son and we live togther. Alternate weekends my ex has my son from Friday after nursery until Monday when he drops him off at nursery and I pick him up on a Monday evening.
My issue is im lost without my son, I feel like I grieve when I've not got him. His father doesn't want to share or tell me what they do, so I never know what he's up to. My new partner keeps me busy taking me out/ renovating our new home etc. But nothing seems to help. I have a good job as an area manager and have applied to reduce my days down to 4 a week, but it was declined, so I have appealed, so I'm am juSt awaiting a date for my appeal to be heard, which isnt helping matters.
I cry myself to sleep and then can be crabby and angry during the day, which isn't healthy for my new relationship. I really struggle being at work because all I can think about is my little boy.
Has anyone else had this experience, how did you cope? I've had a melt down today and seriously thinking about paying my gp a visit as I'm at a loss with how to cope. Since getting divorced my friendship group has dwindled and I don't have any close relationships with any friends or family. Hence why I've come here for advice.
Thanks in advance xx
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Divorced from Sons Dad, Missing my son
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oliversmummy21 · 29/08/2016 20:38
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