I have anxiety and depression, I am currently taking meds which are helping but I'd say I was only about 30% on the road to recovery. I have been suicidal up until only a few weeks ago and I still feel vulnerable that I could regress at anytime, feeling fragile would be the best way to describe it.
As my mood has lifted a little I have treated myself to a much wanted and planned tattoo (small and on my inner wrist/ lower arm) and got an undercut so that when I put my hair into a ponytail it can be seen, otherwise you really wouldn't guess it had been done.
My DH and DS' have been really supportive and the boys both think I look cool and that the tattoo/hair cut suit me and I've been happy and feeling more like my old pre-depressed self. I'm 45 next month and was starting to look/feel a bit mumsy but now I feel a bit more confident about myself, that was until I showed my parents.
Both Parents have had a go at me, what have I done? Why? Don't do that anymore/again, that kind of thing and I'm devastated. I've tried not to cry but it's so hard, I've made so much progress with my mood and I feel slapped down again. DH says ignore them, he loves my slightly (for me) new edgy image but all I can think about is their negativity.
Anyone any tips or any pointers to try and train myself not to care? I don't have fantastic self esteem and this is eating away at me now.
Thank you for reading and keeping with me, if you made it to the end.
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How can I train myself not to care about people's opinions of me?
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MiaFarrowsWheelbarrow · 20/08/2016 19:38
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