Okay, so the story is I met DP last July and we starting seeing each other. DP has a DS and since last July I have given up my job (various reasons, mainly I wasn't happy with the hours as I never got to be home) took on two other jobs but those failed miserably as I discovered after the second one that I have mild depression. I am therefore staying at home with DSS so the DP can go out to work instead of me. It's working okay, little strapped for cash but not too bad.
Basically I think I'm just full of stress atm just from my life changing so rapidly. A year ago I was single in a full time job. Now I'm basically a full time mum to my DSS. He is 3, has a speech delay and doesn't speak much at all which often makes the day very stressful as he tantrums about nearly everything. I'm trying my best to be calm but the smallest things are sending me through the roof right now. We moved last week so I'm trying to sort the house out by myself (DP comes home and has decided that he can't do anything because this is his time to relax so even when he is home I'm still doing most things by myself)
I'm so stressed and cross all the time and I'm hoping for some tips on how to control my stress level a bit more. I don't have any friends with other children as I obviously missed out on the meeting other mummies when baby was young as I wasn't around when baby was young. ;) I'm not really sure how to go about meeting other mums as everyone seems to be in little groups already and I'm pretty nervous about approaching a group, especially as I'm only a step parent (for some reason I don't really feel it's my place to) I'm feeling a bit isolated and thought this might be the place to chat to other people about it. :)
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Imavinoops · 05/05/2016 22:57
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