Nearly all of the women in our family suffer with mental illness in the form of depression so I understand everywhere aspect of this But my cousin has been diagnosed with a personality disorder and I really want to understand the condition more and would love some real insight please, I hard to write but it's mainly so I don't shake my cousin through anger of her manipulation/ lies and pretending to be someone else.
2 years ago I ended up on a mental health ward and stayed for 4 weeks, last week my cousin had her boyfriend take her there because she said she felt like killing herself... This turns out to be false, the doctors there came to my aunties house and pulled her aside and said that it was all an act but it's her personality disorder that causes her to lie and pretend.
The reason this infuriates me is because 1) I was really worried about her because of being there myself and 2) I sick of her taking all the heartache I've had in my life and pretending it has happened to her!
I've had a rough upbringing through my parents and my auntie (mums sister) has given her a life that every child would dream of ( I desperately wanted my aunti to adopt me when I was young) BUT she takes the things that have happened to me and tells everyone that they have happened to her!
My question is, Is lying, manipulation and pretending wanting people to feel sorry for her all the time normal?
On the other hand she makes out that she has this 'gift' with training animals, she has one dog that my auntie has to look after all the time but when I'm around her and the dog she makes out that the dog has some kind of military training! I have 5 dogs and have trained for years in dog behaviour, I've never told my cousin or my auntie how I see this type of thing very often because my auntie has her head in the sand and refuses to see any of this behaviour
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please help me understand personality disorder
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Candlefairy101 · 28/04/2016 10:00
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