I'm 35, mum to a 2.5 year old son, girlfriend of 13 years.
I'm utterly despairing of myself, I am failing in every area. I don't even want to go into it, yet I also need to talk.
I'm trying desperately to improve our lives by starting a business, well two actually. But I've frozen, I'm not convinced on either, I'm not sure the love is there. I need to love what I do, I need it to be lucrative. Problem is I'm starting to think I don't have a passion. I don't want to believe that, there needs to be more to life. Then I feel utterly guilty, my boyfriend works hard, my son is wonderful. Why can't I be normal for their sake.
I gave notice to a customer last week as she was awful to work with and also impacting on my self esteem a lot. I felt elated afterwards, now I feel guilt towards my family. Like I should have just sucked it up.
I'm gaining weight, I'm exhausted all the time, my self worth is crap and my binge eating is reappearing.
How to people cope, how do you find your 'way' in life? I've tried so hard to be positive but it's not working. I'm scared that at times I just want to run away. I never would as I couldn't be away from my son plus where would I run to?
I've never felt right, always felt out of place. Always felt that there is something great out there for my life if only I could put my finger on it.
Don't take this post wrong, this isn't about not wanting my son or boyfriend. They are very much my future, I want this great future for the three of us.
Maybe there isn't a great future for me, that's what I'm scared of. Maybe I'm destined for a mediocre life. How could I make peace with that?
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smiales01 · 26/01/2016 21:32
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