Everything I read promised an imediate 'feeling of joy' elation etc on birth of baby, but after 2 weeks I still feel nothing, except scared I've made an ireversable mistake and scared of its constant demands and of having to raise a girl in a sexist world - Is this normal?!
Despite wanting to get pregnant I found I hated being pregnant. I had a horrible labour with emergancy C-section, but I thought it'd be ok after, not like this.
I'm very lucky to have relatives that are thrilled about the baby but I wonder when/if I'll ever feel like that. I know I should be grateful to have a healthy child but it just feels like I'm stuck in a big never ending nightmare, nothing like those happy smug mothers in magazines etc
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Bonding, lack of
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NKd1165832325913 · 11/12/2006 10:40
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