I'm the kind of person who 9 times out of 10 will play down anything that might be going on with me in terms of mental health when asked how I'm doing by someone, be it a healthcare professional, friend or family member. I've been thinking about this lately and I think the reasons I do this are probably because: I don't want people to worry about me, I don't want people to think I'm an attention seeker, I worry I won't be believed and I worry about embarrassing myself. It mostly seems to stem from me worrying about what people think, which is stupid really - especially when talking to a HCP as they have literally seen and heard it all. I have no idea why I'm so worried about my conduct around a doctor ffs. They're there to help, not pass judgement.
I have my six week post partum check up with my GP on Friday and whilst I don't believe I have PND I do think I may have some form of anxiety/depression and that I have been suffering for a while, even before pregnancy/babies. I've either been in denial or been unable to pluck up the courage to actually get help and talk to someone about it. Whilst I don't believe I am suffering on a severe scale I do find that sometimes it can affect my daily life/others around me and I am starting to recognise that how I feel isn't 'normal' and that maybe some sort of medical help will be of great benefit to me.
Has anyone else found it difficult to go to the Dr about mental health stuff? Some people seem to matter of fact about it, they realize something isn't right, that they may be suffering from depression or anxiety or something. Get a dr's appointment and they get sorted. So why does it seem to be such a challenge for me? What's the secret? Maybe this silly fear is part of my suspected anxiety.
I've always been better with the written word. Would it be weird to write a list of my 'symptoms' and take it with my to my appointment and hand it to the doctor? Sometimes it seems I'm physically incapable of speaking up and my mind draws a blank when put on the spot so to speak.
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imwithspud · 08/07/2015 00:04
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