DH has suffered from bouts of depression for at least 6 years. He has habitually spent October to April or even May on the sofa doing fuck all. During this time both sets of parents have died which has not helped. This year he was down and lethargic until end of June and then (as previously) he turned into the Duracell bunny and expected me to keep up - think getting up at 3am, leaving me with a weeks worth of work to do, crashing out for a nap by 10 am and repeat..... We run 2 businesses together. During the 'fallow' periods I manage to keep it ticking over. During the summer I struggle to fit in all of the usual domestic/child jobs and work. He has crashed again and is going to see his doctor tomorrow. Tonight he has asked me to do some research on what meds he should ask for as his doctor 'will give him anything he wants' WTF do I do? I have no idea. Any positive/negative experiences that you can give. BTW depression is not caused by any financial worries. We had issues with a previous neighbour that took us to the brink but we moved in 2006 but he seems worse now than ever. He also has high blood pressure... smokes and drinks....
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DH has been depressed for at least 6 years - help!
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LAK11 · 20/11/2014 22:07
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