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Mental health

Not expecting a reply. Just have nobody to talk to

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KimCarcrashian · 29/08/2014 12:07

I can't stop crying

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KimCarcrashian · 29/08/2014 12:09

I've been abandoned suddenly by someone I thought I trusted. I am utterly devastated and can't stop crying.

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KimCarcrashian · 29/08/2014 12:10

I just want it all to end. I want it to go back to the way it was.

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Didiusfalco · 29/08/2014 12:11

Have a hug. Do you want to talk more about what has happened?

KimCarcrashian · 29/08/2014 12:12

I don't know what is a lie and what is the truth anymore. I'm totally bewildered. I have nobody to talk to and I am desperately trying not to message this person.

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Fragglewump · 29/08/2014 12:12

Kim you are hurting now but things will get better. You can never go back but you can try to meek going forward as good as it can be. Do you want to tell us more about who hurt you?

KimCarcrashian · 29/08/2014 12:13

Oh. Hello. Thank you for listening. I wasn't expecting any replies. But thank yiu

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Fragglewump · 29/08/2014 12:13

Kim don't message until your have straightened out your thoughts. You might say something you regret.

monsterowl · 29/08/2014 12:13

So sorry you are feeling really low Kim. Are you able to offer any more details so that maybe people could try to help out with constructive suggestions? Was the person who has abandoned you your partner? Is there are reason you've posted in mental health rather than relationships, i.e. are there existing mental health issues?

monsterowl · 29/08/2014 12:13

(Sorry, there were no other replies when I posted mine ...)

KimCarcrashian · 29/08/2014 12:14

Thank you. I desperately want things to go back to how they were, but was it all a lie? I don't know.

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KimCarcrashian · 29/08/2014 12:14

Sorry. I know this is crazy rambling.

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monsterowl · 29/08/2014 12:15

So, somebody you trusted has deceived you and you've just found out?

KimCarcrashian · 29/08/2014 12:16

Thanks Fruggle. You are wise.

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KimCarcrashian · 29/08/2014 12:17

I'm prob making all kinds of mistakes because I'm crying so hard. I'm sorry.

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Zucker · 29/08/2014 12:17

Hi Kim keep on talking to us, better out than in as they say Flowers

KimCarcrashian · 29/08/2014 12:17

Yes Monst. That's right. It is utterly crap.

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KimCarcrashian · 29/08/2014 12:18

I'm posting in mental health because I do have mental health issues. I thought things were fine until this came along.

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KimCarcrashian · 29/08/2014 12:19

Thanks Zucker

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monsterowl · 29/08/2014 12:19

Ok. So, maybe some hand-holding is in order while you get through the initial shock, and when you're feeling a bit more balanced you can tell us what's happened and maybe we can offer some help with clarifying your thoughts :)

But, know that many (all?) of us have been there too: having been hurt so badly that we can't stop crying.

KimCarcrashian · 29/08/2014 12:19

And thank you to everyone. I honestly thought nobody would reply.

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Fragglewump · 29/08/2014 12:20

So Kim things are going to feel more difficult because you have mental health issues - are you getting extra support or meds at the moment? Have you just found out?

KimCarcrashian · 29/08/2014 12:20

Thank you Monst. I just needed to get this out because I have nobody I can tell this to.

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KimCarcrashian · 29/08/2014 12:21

I am on medication. Thought I was going well up until now.

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KimCarcrashian · 29/08/2014 12:24

This person is currently posting all over twitter to his friends and joking without a care in the world and I am feeling like utter crap.

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KimCarcrashian · 29/08/2014 12:24

I'm doing everything I can trying not to look at it.

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