I've just had ds and have two dds aged 4 and 2. As some of you may know, dd2 has been ill around the time of ds' birth, and since then all three have had chicken pox. Over the past year we've had a fair whack of illness - dd1 had a stonking vomiting bug, dd2 gets tonsilitis and in March me and the girls got a virus which resulted in dd2 and I being hospitalised, although dd1 shoudl have been too IMO. That's without the ususal colds and temperatures. I really can't take any more, esp. as I am terrified that when the dds get something nasty ds will get it. They really have been ill sometimes, so poorly it is like there is no-one behind their eyes. I think if ds gets something like that he'll die. I've found it hard to reconnect with dd2 since coming home as I thought I'd never see her again. Now we have but I'm more worried than ever. My kids are my life. My friend recently lost her ds to meningitis and hsi symptoms were just like so many of the things the girls have had, so I know that these things do happen. I used to think I was a competent mum but now I don't trust my own judgement. We have a maternity nurse here who has helped us nurse the dds through CP but I just felt useless - if she hadn't been herre they would hav ereally been in trouble. I just want to blank all these feelings out and be the mum my kids deserve, not some wreck who is always miserable. Please can anyone help me?
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how do I stop feeling scared my kids will get ill?
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nearlythree · 30/06/2006 20:49
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