had my assessment yesterday, they say i am depressed and anxious. poss caused by childhood. that i will need to self refer to fresh start for talking therapy.
i tried to tell them its more then depression, not sure what but something else?
before i ended up in foster care i remember sitting in my livingroom shaking and feeling odd, then one day again - before fostercare - i said to my mum my head dont feel right? so young then.
i told them i wasnt happy with just 'depression' and requested i see a psychiatrist. which they said 'well ok but can take up to 8wks minimum!'
i was left feeling no hope, i took a steak knife and pushed it against my wrist, but the coward i am cant even do it! now i feel completely lost, really dont know what to do. ive decided i will talk to my 2 ds's and make arrangments for them to live with their dad, my dd will stay with me for longer as she is my shadow. i feel like i need to clear my life of everything then i dont have too much to leave behind?
spent the whole morning thinking what would be the easiest, cleanest way out!
maybe they think because i get up, get dressed, fed the kids and do housework that im not 'that bad' but if i didnt have the kids to look after i would rot away in my bed. i do it so the kids dont end up as twisted as me, i do it so they aint surrounded by a dirty home or raiding the bins for food!
they dont realise how much mentally it takes me to plan shopping for the week, cook a meal, wash up, clean up, GET UP! it takes everything out of me. i feel like a zombie, then got to fake smile when the beighbours wave, its exhausting.
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feel like i need to give in the fight now
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mouses · 23/08/2013 07:39
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