I have a dear friend who's been coping with depression, sometimes severe, for many years. She doesn't have a partner or children and her family are not nearby (and are complicated) but she has several close friends who she can depend on. However, she is often reluctant to call us because she feels bad to ask so much of us, and feels she takes more from her relationships than she puts back in (we don't feel that way).
She has been through a bad patch recently and really wants to come up with new coping strategies, especially focussing on not calling people only at crisis point but trying to deal with things before it gets to that point. She's having a brain-storming session in a few days with a few of her close friends, and I want to be able to contribute as much as possible.
If anyone has any suggestions about coping strategies I could suggest, especially about things friends can do, but in a way that doesn't make her feel like she's being too demanding, I'd be very grateful. At the moment, my support generally consists of spending time with her when she's down, which I know helps, but is maybe not sufficient.
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Tips for coping with depression - what can friends do?
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iismum · 22/05/2013 22:47
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