Last year I volunteered to take on a bigger role with a local voluntary group. It means doing a lot of ringing people, organising things, chairing meetings etc. I said I would do it, reluctantly, because no-one else would step up to it.
Since then I have been diagnosed with mild-moderate depression (owing largely to terrible bereavement a few years ago).
I don't know what to do about the volunteer position - in some ways having the push to get out of my comfort zone (I hate ringing people to ask them to do stuff!) and ensure I have social contact is good. But the burden of the work is too much. I am not pulling my weight with it all. Do I step back from it? That will leave people in the lurch. Also, I am not sure I want to tell people I am depressed (most could never tell that from meeting the public "me" ) but if I just quit that looks pretty bad.
Or do I keep doing it, to the best of my ability, given that there doesn't seem anyone else willing to do anything? And perhaps tell the regional person that this is the case, that I'm doing my best but it won't be brilliant. My gut self-preservation instinct is to quit. But I also know that long-term it is good to be involved with something. Argh!
Anyone got any thoughts as to how best to sort this out please?
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Depressed and have taken too much on - how do I deal with this?
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Abelia · 15/06/2011 10:36
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