I've been depressed in the past. I was self harming and suicidal when diagnosed at 19 and was prescribed anti depressants and given councelling, therapy for many years. At one point, I was getting CPN home visits too as I was seen as a serious suicide risk I had been abused as a child and was told that I had probably been depressed since being quite small.
I tried at various points to come off the AD's but never managed more than a year until I was 27 and about to marry my DH. I've been off them for 6 years now.
But recently, I'm feeling very down.
There are lots of good reasons for me to feel down though. My Grandad had severe dementia and just after Christmas was diagnosed as having Cancer. Grandad was too frail to cope with any more diagnosis (ie what sort of Cancer) or any treatment so it was decided to only give paliative (sp?) care. He finally died on Monday. The last week was awful and it was almost a relief to have it over. I've not managed to cry since he died. On top of this, a freind of mine is being treated for Breast Cancer. She's only a couple of years older than me (mid 30's) and has two children who are very close in age to mine. It feels very close to home. And last night, I found out that a friend of mine from Uni, lost his Son on Tuesday when he was still born at 29 weeks.
I guess it's all really scared me and made me realise how delicate and easily lost human life is. What's made me worry that I'm depressed again rather than just upset about it all is that I've found myself thinking that it would just be easier if I'd never been born so I didn't have to worry about it.
I'm tired too which isn't helping. 14 month old DD has never been a great sleeper and has been waking very early in the morning for a while now - this morning it was 5am. We're trying everything we can think of to help - recently dropping morning naps etc - but nothing seems to work for more than a couple of days. I have a 4 year old too so can't catch up, or stop, during the day and it's wearing me down.
DD has become a massively fussy eater too so I'm worrying about that on top of everything else.
I can't decide whether given everything that's happening all at once, if this is normal. I'm fairly sure anyone would be feeling down in my situation but the feelings of rather not being here to deal with it are worrying me. I'm not suicidal, I would never want to leave my children and I'm managing to keep going with everyday things rather than retreating to my bed and sleeping. I'm sleepy but I have a good reason. I'm eating well too.
At what point does feeling down become depression?
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Am I depressed again or is this normal?
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Blatherskite · 06/02/2011 09:02
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