every feel lost in own world

[wonderif]

i am so not myself at the minute lost my wee baby at 18 weeks, meant to be due on christmas day.

am on a/d, am finding myself hard to live with my poor dh i am sure i am driving him mad.

house is a pigstyle just dont seem to have the energy , i was ok up to about 2 weeks ago wishes xmas would go away!!

[rinabean]

Sorry, I don't have much advice but I couldn't just read this and leave. Please be kind to yourself, you've been through a lot. This whole month is tough for anything like this because of all the focus on the idea of happy families. Don't stress about the house, you can just tackle that slowly. It's not the most important thing right now. Maybe go back to the GP and see if there's anything else they can do? Different meds, counselling? I hope you feel better soon.

[rinabean]

Oh, I don't know what your relationship is like with your DH, if you're "talky" people or not, but if you are, maybe sure you keep talking to him! You're in this together! And that goes for sorting out the house too, when you feel up to it :)

[orangeflutie]

Hi so sorry you've lost your baby:(

Try not to think too far ahead at the moment. Just take things slowly and only do what you feel you can cope with.

Make sure you're surrounded by people you love and you will get through.

[wonderif]

thanks for replies everyone, i do have 2 dcs so they are getting excited and everything so its not all doom and gloom just feel very down at the minute, maybe once christmas is over it will feel like a new start again.