I have major family issues, stemming from my own 'mother' leaving me at 4 years old.
I am often up and down about it and other silly little things happen which I blow up into a massive deal and completely overreact to. Nobody in my family seems to be remotely bothered about why I am the way I am. As I was taken in by another relative at the age of 4, everyone seems to think that all is and was well with my childhood and life now, despite the first 4 years being absolute shit and there are things that I remember from this time and other things I have found out since.
I have finally gone to my GP and asked to be referred for some proper therapy, not just conselling, been there and done that twice and while it was ok, it isn't enough.
My GP was very understanding and has referred me for CBT (1 to 1, not a group).
I have had CBT before for M.E./CFS and it was not good! I had a graduate student who, when I explained different symptoms, would say "oh I get like that" and I got really fed up and disillusioned with the whole thing. If I had had someone better, it may have been a better experience, even though it did absolutely nothing for my M.E. as I knew it wouldn't.
What exactly happens with CBT? I don't think what I received previously could be counted as 'proper' CBT as I have heard it is suppose to be very good. It didn't help that the man I saw (and I really don't mean this in a horrible way at all) had a very very bad stutter and as I was totally exhausted anyway, I just couldn't concentrate and focus for that long on what he was saying, so I don't really remember that much about it, plus he made a very innocent comment to me once about my appearance which made me uncomfortable and slightly put me off (I am wary of men I don't know for good reasons).
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Experiences of CBT for therapy with family issues?
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CrazyChristmasLady · 05/12/2010 12:09
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