I'm in my late 30s, have 1 DC (11). I'm 8 weeks pg.
DP doesn't want it but said he'll support me.
DP was made redundant and is looking for work so money is tight. I just started a new job in a new profession. I won't be entitled to maternity pay (other than SMP). I don't know how we'd manage. DP has 4 children. So there's 7 of us. We couldn't fit another in the car.
My DC randomly mentioned having a baby sibling in the house & how DC actually likes being an only child.
I don't think I can have this baby but I don't want to terminate. I couldn't do adoption. I don't know what to do & my head is a mess.
Please be kind.
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Fuscus · 09/12/2015 18:12
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